10 Best Sex Positions for Female Orgasm

Figuring out what works best in the bedroom is as much about having fun as it is about finding what makes you feel amazing. For women, reaching orgasm can sometimes feel like solving a tricky puzzle, but the good news is that the right positions and toys can make it way easier—and way more fun. Whether you’re just starting to explore or looking to spice things up, here are 10 must-try positions and a few badass toys to help you turn up the heat.

1.Missionary with a Pillow

How to do it: The woman lies on her back while the man is on top. Place a firm pillow or folded towel under her hips to elevate the pelvis. This shifts the angle of penetration, allowing the penis to target the G-spot, which is located on the front vaginal wall. The man can control thrust depth and rhythm while maintaining intimacy with face-to-face contact.

2. Woman on Top (Cowgirl)

How to do it: The man lies on his back, and the woman straddles him, facing him. She can squat or sit upright on her knees, controlling the angle, depth, and speed of penetration. Grinding motions can enhance clitoral stimulation. Using hands or toys can further increase sensation.

3. Reverse Cowgirl

How to do it: The man lies on his back while the woman straddles him, facing away. She can lean forward or back to adjust the penetration angle and pressure. This position provides a clear path for the woman to reach her clitoris with her hand, if desired.

4. Doggy Style

How to do it: The woman gets on all fours, with knees and hands on the bed or a sturdy surface. The man kneels behind her, guiding his penis for deep penetration. Adjusting the woman’s back arch can alter the angle for better G-spot access. For added clitoral stimulation, one partner can use a hand or toy.

5. Spooning

How to do it: Both partners lie on their sides, with the woman in front and the man behind, in a spooning embrace. The man enters from behind, and gentle, shallow thrusts allow for slow stimulation. This position frees up hands for clitoral stimulation, and it works well for longer, intimate sessions.

6. Standing

How to do it: The woman bends slightly forward, using a wall, counter, or other sturdy support for balance, while the man stands behind her. Alternatively, she can wrap her legs around his waist for support. The standing position provides deeper penetration and can be spontaneous, adding to the excitement.

7. Lotus Position

How to do it: Both partners sit facing each other, with the man cross-legged or sitting with his legs stretched out. The woman straddles him, wrapping her legs around his waist. Movement is slow and grinding rather than thrusting, making it easy to maintain clitoral contact through body friction.

8. Edge of the Bed

How to do it: The woman lies on her back with her legs hanging off the edge of the bed. The man stands or kneels in front of her, entering from this angle. This setup allows for deep penetration and easy access to her clitoris with hands or a toy.

9. Scissors

How to do it: Both partners lie on their sides, facing different directions. The man slides between her legs at an angle, creating a scissoring shape with their bodies. This position emphasizes shallow penetration while allowing rhythmic grinding for clitoral stimulation.

10. Butterfly

How to do it: The woman lies on her back at the edge of a surface (bed, table, etc.) with her legs open and lifted. The man stands or kneels, supporting her legs as he penetrates. This elevated angle is great for G-spot targeting, and the man can use his hands or a toy for clitoral stimulation.

Why Is It Harder for Women to Orgasm Than Men?

Female orgasm is influenced by physiological, psychological, and social factors, making it more complex than male orgasm. Key reasons include:

• The clitoris, a key organ for female pleasure, is external and may not receive adequate stimulation during penetrative sex alone.
• Stress, anxiety, and negative body image can hinder arousal and orgasm. Women often require relaxation and emotional connection to reach climax.
• Women often take longer to become fully aroused than men. Without sufficient foreplay or stimulation, achieving orgasm can be difficult.
• Many women hesitate to communicate their preferences or needs to partners, leading to inadequate stimulation during sexual activity.

Sex Toys That Can Help Women Climax Easier

If you want to take your sex to the next level, adding a few sex toys:

Sex Toy Type	Description	Benefits
Clitoral Vibrators	Small, focused vibrators for direct clitoral stimulation.	Enhances sensitivity and makes reaching orgasm easier.
G-Spot Vibrators	Curved-tip vibrators designed to target the G-spot.	Helps achieve internal orgasms with precise stimulation.
Rabbit Vibrators	Dual-action vibrators stimulating the G-spot and clitoris simultaneously.	Combines sensations for intense and satisfying orgasms.
Suction Toys	Uses air pressure technology to mimic oral stimulation on the clitoris.	Offers a unique and deeply pleasurable experience.
Remote-Controlled Toys	Toys with adjustable intensity controlled remotely, ideal for solo or partner play.	Adds excitement, anticipation, and unpredictability to enhance pleasure.
Kegel Balls	Weighted balls for pelvic floor exercises.	Increases sensitivity and strengthens muscles for stronger orgasms.
Dildos	Non-vibrating toys that provide fullness and pressure.	Versatile for penetration and great when combined with clitoral stimulation.
Finger Vibrators	Small vibrators worn on fingers for precise stimulation.	Offers controlled clitoral or vulval stimulation to suit personal preferences.
Anal Toys	Toys designed for anal stimulation.	Enhances sensations during vaginal or clitoral stimulation for a more intense experience.

Final Words

When it comes to great sex, it’s all about finding what clicks for you—and having fun while you’re at it! Whether you’re experimenting with new positions, adding a toy or two, or simply focusing on what feels good, the journey is the best part. So relax, communicate, and don’t be afraid to try something different.